In asking my cuñado that he "say hello to the family", I said:

Salúdales a la familia.

I used the plural 3rd-person -les with a singular but collective noun (familia), because I was referring to my brother-in-law's wife and children.

Is this grammatically correct in Spanish? (Although I'm certain he understood me without any trouble.)

  • Did I get that right with my edit? You were talking to him in Spanish, right? May 6, 2018 at 16:56
  • @aparente001 yes.
    – pr1268
    May 6, 2018 at 17:20

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I would say that is wrong. The pronoun -les (which is plural) does not agree with the noun phrase la familia (which is singular). Moreover, it is redundant. You can say simply:

Saluda a la familia.

Or more naturally:

Dale saludos a la familia. OR
Mándale saludos a la familia.

There are some cases where you can refer to a collective noun using a plural pronoun, but this happens mostly with nouns like grupo or with numerals that work like a collective noun like millón when followed by de + a plural noun, for example:

Un grupo de personas nos esperaban afuera.
"A group of people were waiting for us outside."

Un millón de manifestantes inundaron las calles.
"A million protestors flooded the streets."

Familia doesn't usually work this way. I've heard people say

Toda la familia estábamos muy preocupados.
"The whole family *were very worried."

but I don't think that's correct, or if it is, it's not something you as a student of Spanish should learn right now, because it's not standard.

Some people might also say, in your place:

Salúdame a la familia.
"Say hello to the (=our/your) family for me."

That's called dative of interest and it's grammatically correct and rather common in Spanish. A more formal way would be

Saluda a la familia de mi parte.

where de mi parte means both "from me" and "on my behalf".

  • Great answer and I enjoyed learning the term "dative of interest." (I think that would be a great topic for a canonical Q-A.) // I would add: "Manda saludos a todos," which would be natural if I know the other members of the family well, and "¿Mandas saludos, por favor?" which is comfortably generic, and thus could work well in a situation where I don't know the other family members, such as in a business setting. May 7, 2018 at 13:35
  • @aparente001 I'm working on that Q-A.
    – pablodf76
    May 9, 2018 at 0:57

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